Well, it depends on what you or your family believes. There are some families who prefer that their children will marry certain people who they know who are rich, known in a congregation, or that belong to that certain class of life. This happens to those who belong to the upper-class type of living. While there are instances that we can marry the person that we belong to in the middle or lower class of life. This is being supported by their own respective families, relatives, and friends.