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How have you handled difficult conversations with people you work with in the past?

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However, I followed some general tips for handling difficult conversations with colleagues: 


  1. Prepare: Consider the purpose of the conversation, what you want to achieve, and any potential obstacles. 
  2. Stay calm: Take a deep breath and try to remain composed, even if the other person becomes upset. 
  3. Listen actively: Pay attention to what the other person is saying and try to understand their perspective. 
  4. Use "I" statements: Express your own thoughts and feelings rather than blaming or accusing the other person. 
  5. Avoid defensiveness: Try to be open to the other person's perspective and avoid getting defensive.  
  6. Seek common ground: Look for areas of agreement and try to find solutions that work for both parties. 
  7. Follow up: After the conversation, take some time to reflect on what was discussed and follow up as needed. 


It's important to remember that difficult conversations are a normal part of any relationship and can often lead to better understanding and resolution of conflicts.

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I have always been able to handle difficult conversations with people I work with in the past and  I have always been able to make things work.
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In the past, I have handled difficult conversations with people I work with by remaining as professional as possible, while also being honest and direct with my communication. I strive to be empathetic and understanding of their perspective, while still firmly and clearly conveying my own. I make sure to stay focused on the issue at hand and not bring up any unrelated topics. I also strive to stay respectful and open-minded to their points of view, while remaining firm in my own beliefs. Finally, I try to remain composed and courteous throughout the conversation, even if it gets heated.
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I think that if I have difficult conversations with persons at some job, then it is not a right job for me. I prefer to start finding another one in order to concentrate on job itself and not to bother myself with unnecessary discussions.
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I just try the be myself with confidence, sincerity, and honesty. Even l converse with few talks and just tell what l need to tell with full respect to the other party even l feel awkward speaking with to those people. 
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The simple way of handling difficult conversation with past colleaques at work or anybody esle, is to just be your self and try avoid negativity while talking
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In the past, I have handled difficult conversations with people I work with by remaining calm and professional. I try to remain open-minded and listen to the other person's perspective. I also try to be clear and direct in my communication, and I make sure to be respectful and understanding of the other person's feelings. I also try to focus on finding a solution that is beneficial to both parties.
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I would just be empathetic. I will just consider how the other person will feel during the converstation and give them time to process their emotions. 
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I usually try to be diplomatic and avoid escalating the situation. I might try to calmly explain why I am making the request or filing the grievance, and then gather more information if necessary. I also might try to have a talk with the person who did the wrong thing to see if there is a way to fix the situation without involving the boss or other employees.
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One effective approach is to be proactive in addressing the issue. This may involve scheduling a specific time to meet with the person and discussing the problem in a calm and respectful manner. It's important to be clear and specific about the issue and to focus on finding a solution rather than placing blame.

Another key aspect is to be an active listener, showing that you are paying attention to the person and that you are taking their concerns seriously. Avoid interrupting or getting defensive, and try to understand the other person's perspective.

It's also important to be open and honest in your communication, while also remaining professional. It's important to be considerate of the other person's feelings, and to be prepared to compromise in order to find a solution that is acceptable to everyone.

Finally, it's important to follow up after the conversation to ensure that any agreements made during the conversation are being implemented, and to check in to see if any issues have been resolved.
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