Couples can still work despite frequent conflicts, disagreements, and differences of opinion in constructive way as follows:
(1) trust (be kind) to your partner before actually proven guilty.
(2) communicate with him/her regularly.
(3) do your best, and tolerate his/her weaknesses.
(4) keep seeking knowledge, insight, and experience in order to live
this life be kinder, tolerant, and flexible.
(5) make room for any inconvenience or misfortune happern to you
or him/her.
(6) improve each other's bevaviour.
(7) act decisively for things that are really necessary dan have
dangerous consequences; being sick/pain for a while is better
than suffer in long run.