A Man love other woman than his wife?

Question

Hi friends.

There is a story that i know about a man having a relationship to a girl for a longtime and not even know the wife.

The girl shared his problems about it and she said to a man that i know your married and i dont want that your damily be destroyed and please stop me and stop me because there is no good and ypur married.The man said to her no i love you and i want you and marry you.And because no one knows it for long time and one day it revealed it.The wife is angry  to a woman and to a his husband.and some of her friends wife angry to a woman.The woman dont qant to destroy the family because he is a married man  and i dont understand the situation .who will be blame??

Comments

A man should not love another woman aside from his wife or else he is already cheating, otherwise he should be honest and get out from the marriage if he don't want to stay in it.

Answer 1

Any man who keeps another woman after being married is a dog and a cheat. He doesn't deserve the love, care and affection his married wife is giving to him because his body present in his family but absent minded with his mistress who he probably shows more love, romance, care and affection than he does for his married wife. Some men makes feel like it's wrong to be a man by their inability to control their sexual urges because it's the main reason why most men look for other women out there to show fake love all in the quest to have sex with these women. What annoys me most is the some of these girls or women are well aware that these men are already married with their own family, they still open themselves up to get intimate with married men.

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Answer 2

I believe in saying that, if you love the second time aside from your wife, you better let go of your wife because you will never fall in love with another woman if you really love your wife. And until now a lot of men or women even they are married, they can still fall out of love with their partners and fall in love with another. This is something that we seriously need to think of, it is not easy to stay in love in a relationship. But, you can choose to fall in love  again with your husband or wife if you think you fall out of love. I am a wife, and I know sometimes I feel I don't love my husband anymore because he doesn't treat me exactly what's a woman should be treated. But, because we have children, I choose to stay and keep looking for something to fall in love again. There is nothing wrong with falling in love many times with your husband or wife.

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Answer 3

This is absolutely wrong. it is evident that this behavor is escallating every other day. it's just not right. when two people make vows to each other to be together for always and to never let anything or anyone put them assunder, why then would you let someone from some other place to come between us? Sometimes it's hard to comprehend why men would not tell ladies that they are married. this is for obvious reasons just so they can have their way, beneifit from innocent souls. We all know for a fact that when men get married they will never leave their wives for you, so the earlier we get that in our heads the better. Yes there may have a genuine reason to love you, but it all boils down to morals, and discipline. this is a decision that can only be made by the two. If you have a conscience, you will let it slide but if you don't you will fall into his trap for sure and that will have dire consequences on you which will get you frustrated in the long run.

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Answer 4

A man can love another woman than wife. The woman is his mother. Man first inspiration and love is his mother. 

Mother, wife, friends are more important in mens life.

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Answer 5

The man is disgusting and is beyond reproach. He has taken advantage of two women that love/loved this greedy man.

Both women should run and stay away from him.

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Answer 6

A man should love his wife more, if it is the opposite then there is a problem. That means there is a problem with the relationship that needs to be sorted out, what has brought about the drop in affection has to be checked, is the fault from the man or the woman.

Answer 7

He is considered a player then. I am feel bad for his wife and children. If he cannot able to control himself, then the marriage will surely fall apart. As soon as possible, he needs to stay away from another woman. Well, he chooses to be with her, then it is better to end the marriage.

Comments

So true, but even after such a bad reputation these men have the courage to defend themself and justify themself right. This type of behavior is some shameless.

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Answer 8

If the man is married, he  committed adultery which is not good and this is a hurtful thing to do to the wife. He should maintain the sanctity of his marriage. 

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So true, every marriage life has some ups and downs, they are some dark days but after every darkness there is light, No man should take a rapid decision and forget all his vows of marriage in any situation.

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Answer 9

I think the best thing to do is to choose one by doing this you are being honest to yourself and it will help you alot with your mental isues whereby you will be at peace with yourself.

Answer 10

We don't know exactly what is the type of life between that man and his wife,and we don't know if they were forced to get married to satisfy their families.

No one know what is inside the house and what is their problems .we can look at it from different sides 

1)maybe the woman is not taking care of her man and ignore herself and ignore him,so he went out to search for other woman to compensate him.

2) maybe the man don't love her from the begining and he was forced by his family to marry her.

3)maybe they are both the reason for this.

4)for the other woman he loved maybe she was the woman he want to marry long time ago ,we can't blame her if she don't want to destroy his family and refuse to get into a relationship with him.

Anyway he will search for other woman because this will not solve his problem between him and his wife.

Answer 11

A married man loves another woman you can analyze his behavior to some conclusion. If your husband suddenly seems distant for you, spends more time outside, avoids physical intimacy with you, or acts suspicious. This is the most obvious sign that your husband has another feeling for another woman.

Answer 12

If i get your story correctly i think the man is to be blamed here because he is a married man for crying out loud, he should have learn how to stick to his wife.

Answer 13

A man that married a woman must fulfill his duties and promised to love her. The woman he married should be the only one he'll love and no other than her

Answer 14

If he loves another woman and marries another one because of pressure then it's forced marriage.But now he's married and must try to love his wife. If he loved that woman that much then his parents must be convinced for their marriage.

Answer 15

It's difficult to say who is to blame in this situation since there are many factors involved. In general, it is not right for a man to have a relationship with another woman while he is married, and it is not right for the other woman to be in a relationship with a married man. Both parties should be respectful of the commitment that the man has made to his wife. It is important to remember that no matter what, the primary responsibility in this situation lies with the man for not honoring his marriage and for not being honest with his wife.

Answer 16

Yes, man can love with other woman more then his wife. its up to his wife that how much she provides sexual satisfaction to her husband. if she properly provide sex feelings 2 times daily in night, there is no question arise, that man would even think to love woman other then his wife.

Answer 17

No one should be blamed in this situation. It is unfortunate that the man chose to pursue a relationship with someone other than his wife, and that this was against his marriage vows. The woman was wise in not wanting to destroy the man's family, and it is commendable that she tried to end the relationship. Ultimately, it is the man's responsibility to uphold his marriage vows and respect his wife.

Answer 18

This happens and it has been  happening but me this is childish and stupid behaviors.this is a man who was not ready to marry.

Answer 19

Infidelity is a complex issue and can occur for various reasons. However, cheating on one's spouse is generally considered unethical and can have significant consequences on the relationship and emotional well-being of all parties involved.

Answer 20

I think the man is to be blamed the day he got married to his wife he promised her in the alter for better for worse till death do us part and yet he could not keep his promises