We receive dozens of tips and assessments every day that we didn't ask for. Kind people with valuable advice at the ready are all around us. Perhaps this is a consequence of incomplete communism, when everything was common and we were not supposed to have any secrets from society. Or maybe it is a result of economic unsettlement, a specter of the '90s: several generations often had to live in a common apartment and share a household. And when you get used to living in one room with five people, you begin to lose track of which is your hand and which is someone else's, which is your problem, and which is shared. Boundaries of personality seem in such conditions something ghostly and unnecessary, and the temptation to actively participate in everything that happens around, down to the most intimate details of personal life of others is great.