Um, I'm confused, are you saying i should be ashamed of myself for my answer?
I didn't say anything wrong, whether or not someone leaves the other person for money depends on the person who leaves' character and the state of their relationship.
I'm not putting blame on the wife or child. I'm just simply stating the factors which affect the likeliness of the circumstance taking place.
My "Not necessarily" was not towards the question "Is the man a bad man for leaving his wife?" but towards the question "Will any man leave his family for money?"
I'm not passing judgement on anyone, be it the wife the child or the husband. I'm just saying that these are possible reasons why someone would leave for money. "Will any husband tell or do like this to any woman?" that is exactly what I'm saying, any man wouldn't do this to his wife but whether or not someone does it depends on their character (meaning: selfishness etc.)
Please don't misinterpret what I'm trying to say