No matter how I try to remain nice and calm, there are still people who just make me lose my patience. I don't know if pissing other people off makes them happy or anything, but I do hope they'll realize that what they're doing won't do them any good. Recently, these people just keeps coming at me. I am not good at confrontations, and I do not want to engage in unhealthy arguments. What do you think should I do?
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I stop being kind when I see that my kindness is taken for granted. You can be so good to some people and they end up being bad to you and expect that you will continue being good.
When I've had enough of a person taking advantage of me. I am a kind person and I do so much for others. But in the end, it is always me who is left out and feeling betrayed by the ones I help. It seems that some people will take advantage of you all the time and always want from you. They will yell at you and treat you badly, but when they need help you are the first one they run to. I had to finally make a decision that I would no longer accept this in my life. Now if a person yells at me and wants something afterward, I don't do it anymore. I stop being kind as you put it.