when the parents shows too much love to the kids, you get to see that it is going to make the kids look spoilt and disrespectful to even elders of the community. One thing that I always do when I am with the kid is to improve the communication level to push through their emotions. I flog my little siblings with cane when they misbehave and when they perform better, I always find a gift to celebrate them. Keeping this kind of balance is something that will definitely help them to remain aware of the wrongs and right in the family.relationship that exists between the parents and the kids is something that we should always have a strong thought about. I have always said that parents should be careful the way that they treat their kids in the sense that when you are too harsh on them, you are definitely teaching them that they can behave the way that they want which will broad in stubbornness.