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I'm not a relationship guru but its a pretty safe bet to say that the following tips will give you a long lasting relationship

  • It is important you have similar outlook on life.You need to share the same core values.A good example is the number of kids you want to have and how you intend to raise them.Not having any common ground with your better half makes it difficult for you to be enthusiastic about what interest them
  • Physicality and attraction plays an important role.A relationship will most likely not develop if their is no physical attraction in the first place..keep your weight and appearance in check..look good
  • Communication is also important in a relationship. Ideally,you should be spending majority of your day with your spouse.Inability to trust your spouse with problems and concerns will create a wedge between the two of you
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The one thing i will always emphasise on in relationships is, you should first of all be friends then become lovers. If there is no friendship then just know you are not goung to last long. Friends are forever, they may betray or hurt you sometimes but you will always find ways to solve your problems and move on. Another thing is, friends are open to each other, friends are confidants, friends are always there for each other. If you can have all these with your partner then you can be assured that you will build a long lasting relationship. 

When you know each other you will know how to deal with each other, each one will know which buttons to push and when. Good communication is key always speak out when you are uncomfortable don't hold back or sweep issues under the carpet. Always have the word sorry close to your lips. When your wrong be the first to say sorry don't wait to be asked what is going on with you. Believe in yourself, stop listening to too many advisers you will fall.
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To build the lasting relationship with our Partner,we should respect each other.We should follow the instructions of each other.We should be Friend of each other.
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I have been with my husband since we were in high school. We celebrated our eleventh year together this past November, and we've been married for 4 years. So hopefully that will make me a good candidate to giving you some decent advice.


For a long-lasting relationship, do these five things and I promise you, your life will be a whole lot easier with your significant other.

  1. Have fun together. Couples that go out and do things together and make memories usually last longer. It's called building your foundation. Couples that have a good history together are more likely to make it work through tough times.
  2. You have to agree on the big things. If you can both come to an agreement on the big things like financial, career, home location, and number of children, then there will be less friction and uncertainty about your future together.
  3. Make sure to say please and thank you. Couples who have been together a long time sometimes forget to say these simple words. Don't forget to tell your partner from time to time that you appreciate them. Don't take them for granted.
  4. Trust, trust, trust. You have got to trust your partner, and they have got to trust you. This is a huge necessity for a lasting relationship. If you don't trust each other, you're always going to wonder "who, what, when, where, why, and how?" And it will drive you insane!
  5. Just like trust, another huge factor is communication. You have got to be open and honest with your partner and communicate your feelings to them. They're not a mind reader, and they shouldn't expect you to be, either. Be an open book for your partner, that way they can know your personal feelings and boundries.

I hope this helps! Good luck!
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