My neighbors don't like me. I don't like them. So they mock lie and slam doors. I was here first. I'm not moving it's expensive and I don't want to. I have memories of my late father lived here a couple years.
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I don't know what is the reason you don't like them and they don't like you , but it is not an excuse to leave your house, you have two choices :
1) Try to talk to them to understand what is the reason and why they don't like you maybe there is a misunderstanding , maybe you can fix this problem together and be friends who know???
2) If the first choice doesn't work all you have to do is to ignore them and live as you used too, if you have memories and it is expensive for you to move then try to stay calm and ignore them . no one can force you to move.
The other thing I want to tell you is that moving is not always a solution , maybe you move to other place and face the same problem , do you want to spend your life moving because of neighbors who don't like you and you don't like them.
1) Try to talk to them to understand what is the reason and why they don't like you maybe there is a misunderstanding , maybe you can fix this problem together and be friends who know???
2) If the first choice doesn't work all you have to do is to ignore them and live as you used too, if you have memories and it is expensive for you to move then try to stay calm and ignore them . no one can force you to move.
The other thing I want to tell you is that moving is not always a solution , maybe you move to other place and face the same problem , do you want to spend your life moving because of neighbors who don't like you and you don't like them.
Why? Probably because they have pulled this on others before, and successfully got them to move away. You can turn the other cheek, as silly xtians will no doubt constantly advise, or give 'tit for tat'. Now you can try to find out why they don't like you, and remove the complaint by stop doing it, but chances are great they will simply find something else to whine about. I'd mock lie and slam doors more than they do, and find some other irritations to plague them with. For example, Google 'Liquid Stink', or 'The Mosquito Anti-Loitering Device'. Sounds like you are in a 'neighbor war' and nice guys finish last. Only outcomes are they drive you away, you send them packing, or they decide to coexist.
It's difficult to know exactly why your neighbors think that you will move because they don't like you without more information. However, there could be several reasons why they might have this impression.
One possibility is that your neighbors have had negative interactions with you in the past and assume that you will move out as a result. They may have expressed their dislike of you directly or indirectly, which could have led to this assumption.
Another possibility is that your neighbors are projecting their own feelings onto you. If they are unhappy with their own living situation, they may assume that you are also unhappy and will move out soon. Alternatively, if they have had bad experiences with previous neighbors, they may assume that you are also unhappy and will move out soon.
Regardless of the reason, it's important to remember that your neighbors' assumptions are just that: assumptions. They may not be based on reality, and you shouldn't feel pressured to move out just because they don't like you. If you're concerned about the situation, it might be worth trying to have a conversation with your neighbors to see if there's anything you can do to improve the relationship.
One possibility is that your neighbors have had negative interactions with you in the past and assume that you will move out as a result. They may have expressed their dislike of you directly or indirectly, which could have led to this assumption.
Another possibility is that your neighbors are projecting their own feelings onto you. If they are unhappy with their own living situation, they may assume that you are also unhappy and will move out soon. Alternatively, if they have had bad experiences with previous neighbors, they may assume that you are also unhappy and will move out soon.
Regardless of the reason, it's important to remember that your neighbors' assumptions are just that: assumptions. They may not be based on reality, and you shouldn't feel pressured to move out just because they don't like you. If you're concerned about the situation, it might be worth trying to have a conversation with your neighbors to see if there's anything you can do to improve the relationship.
It can be difficult to live in a place where you feel unwelcome. It is understandable that you don't want to move, but it is important to remember that it is not your fault that your neighbors don't like you. It is important to talk to your neighbors and try to find a way to peacefully coexist. If that is not possible, you may want to consider talking to a mediator or a lawyer to explore your options.