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As often when asked this type of question or anyone having thoughts about it . It is said that it doesn't matter how others perceive us like is it possible so i wanted to ask this question 

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Not a whit. I learned decades ago that no one cared what I thought or felt or needed...not long thereafter I realized this was not a one-way street. Since they did not care about me, I had zero obligation to cater to them. Best to take care of yourself, and let others try to take care of themselves....it's a lot easier, a lot less stressful, and you will end up with a better deal in the end. Trying to please others is a full-time volunteer job with few perks.
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No, I do not need to feel and be conscious of others' notions about me. I am doing who I am really in front of people. As long as I am not hurting others, then there is nothing to worry about them.
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well yes to a certain point but i dont really take to much on board if they dont like me for who i am i think that is their loss and u cant please everybody 
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I can agree more with you. Why consume all the energy and time being with them if they do not like you no matter what the circumstances are.
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No I don't care because I know myself very well , am living normal doing the right thing, not hurting people and believe in god . I treat people good and they treat me good too . I have self confidence so  I don't care if someone don't like me , I will not stress myself in order to shape myself to satisfy people.

I always improve myself but not for people but for me.
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Whatever people see in me is the real me with no pretensions. It doesn't matter what they say as long as I know in myself that I'm not stepping into others' feet. That I'm a down-to-earth person I don't pretend just to look good in others' eyes. I don't make friends easily with many people right away just to have many friends but not real also to me. People sometimes don't understand that I don't get too close to anyone. I just want to have a few real friends that I can trust and also accept me for who I really am.
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It depends on the situation. In my corporate job, I have subordinates and teammates. I do care about what they think because as a leader, I need to be a good example, at least in terms of work ethics. In my personal life, I don't care what people think about me, especially who do not know me and my story.
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To be honest I care and it makes me feel I have to work on my self and other times I feel no one knows me better than I know my self, so their opinion about does not really matter.
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Am this kind of person that is very shy i don't know why but i always try to be on the good side of everybody though i had been told that it is not good to please others
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I don't care what other people think about me, that is their own problems.i live my best trying to impress no one rather working towards my targets and goals .
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I don't pretend just to look good in others' eyes. I don't make friends easily with many people right away just to have many friends but not real also to me
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I don't make friends easily with many people right away just to have many friends but not real also to me. People sometimes don't understand that I don't get too close to anyone. I just want to have a few real friends that I can trust and also accept me for who I really am.
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Since they did not care about me, I had zero obligation to cater to them. Best to take care of yourself, and let others try to take care of themselves....it's a lot easier, a lot less stressful, and you will end up with a better deal in the end. Trying to please others is a full-time volunteer job with few perks.
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