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I just want to specifically ask guys about attraction: 1: Would you guys in general insult a random woman to get her attention? 2: If you found a woman ugly or if an average man found a woman ugly, would you bother staring at her? Or bother making any remarks?  Id be very happy if you could answer these. I'm just interested. I want reasons as to why they do this, not why I'm too bothered as such.

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There is no universal answer to this question since it depends on the person and their individual preferences. However, some men may insult women to gain their attention or to assert dominance over them. Additionally, some men may find women unattractive for any number of reasons, including their appearance, personality, or behavior.

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I can't speak for other guys.I can only speak for myself.Each of us is unique,so is our demeanour towards the opposite sex.

Most times if I find a lady attractive,I will not want to stare at her for too long because I wouldn't want to appear creepy.I may look at her for a brief moment and then look away.If a girl is aware you are staring at her,she may have the idea that you are attracted to her and I don't want her to detect any hint of attraction.Afterwards, I will walk up to her and talk to her.I don't approach every girl I'm attracted to though

Insulting a lady to get her attention is low.I know some guys do it.If a guy is attracted to a lady,he may simply treat her like trash or just make the girl"s presence invisible. I fall into the latter category. We call it reverse psychology
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If i may ask, is this question meant for the men only, or are the women also entitled to answer? Anyway i will answer being a woman, because we are the one's being talked about here. As human beings, it would be quite unfortunate to know that men would only look at the outward person without even considering the other aspects of the person. I will answer your question by saying a guy who insults a woman for starters is a coward. That is the only way he is going to gain courage and tell the girl that he is interested. Why else would he insult her? I don't tgink being ugly is the thing here, because it could also be same for the guy. A girl would rather ignore the fact that there is a guy infront of her, than abuse or insult him. It makes no sense to insult someone. You would rather approach and be denied.
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A man who insults another human being, a woman at that, is a man full of synonimous desciptions of a scumbag.
Thank you for asking.
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No. Women insult men and in the reply,.men do the same.I have seen this happening in my life. People have the perspective that men is wrong, no  matter who start this.
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Some men do, but it is worst form of attitude because in most cases it ends up breaking the woman's heart and ending the relationship. Women are more attentive when they get respect from men. It is not always advisable to abuse women to get their attention because it lowers their dignity. 
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First of all there is no such thing as ugly or beautiful woman in the world. Everyone is beautiful and unique in their own way. Insulting a woman is a bad behavior and a way to cover rehmjection and also pleasing a crowd after a man's advances are rejected. 
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It could be a personality of some men. However, it is a disrespectful thing to do. I am sure some women would not like to be treated that way.
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There are guys who would start first with insult to draw the attention of a girl or lady, but there are also some shy guys just like me who would just stare without a word.
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Usually some men do that to get the attention of the women but they don't actually know that they make the lady hate them if you help be free and make things easier for them I think you can get Thier attention.
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I can't speak for other guys.I can only speak for myself.Each of us is unique,so is our demeanour towards the opposite sex.

Most times if I find a lady attractive,I will not want to stare at her for too long because I wouldn't want to appear creepy.I may look at her for a brief moment and then look away.If a girl is aware you are staring at her,she may have the idea that you are attracted to her and I don't want her to detect any hint of attraction.Afterwards, I will walk up to her and talk to her.I don't approach every girl I'm attracted to though

Insulting a lady to get her attention is low.I know some guys do it.If a guy is attracted to a lady,he may simply treat her like trash or just make the girl"s presence invisible. I fall into the latter category. We call it reverse psychology.

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No, it is not acceptable or productive to insult someone as a means of getting their attention. This behavior is disrespectful and can be hurtful, and it is unlikely to lead to a positive outcome in any relationship. It is always best to communicate in a positive and respectful manner, even if you disagree with someone or have different opinions.
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Well if a guy wants to get the attention of the opposite sex then he should behave nice, kind, caring,smart, and well mannered I think that's all
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Insulting or belittling someone is not a healthy or respectful way to get their attention, and it is generally not an effective approach. In many cases, insults can have the opposite effect and push the person away. 

While some individuals may engage in teasing or playful banter as a form of flirting, it should always be lighthearted and consensual. Genuine insults or derogatory comments are disrespectful and can cause emotional harm. Respectful communication and building a connection based on mutual understanding and shared interests are far more effective and appropriate ways to get someone's attention. 

Healthy communication and mutual respect are essential in any interaction or relationship. If someone is using insults or derogatory language to get your attention, it's important to consider whether this is someone you want to engage with, and if not, it's perfectly reasonable to distance yourself from such behavior.
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