If i may ask, is this question meant for the men only, or are the women also entitled to answer? Anyway i will answer being a woman, because we are the one's being talked about here. As human beings, it would be quite unfortunate to know that men would only look at the outward person without even considering the other aspects of the person. I will answer your question by saying a guy who insults a woman for starters is a coward. That is the only way he is going to gain courage and tell the girl that he is interested. Why else would he insult her? I don't tgink being ugly is the thing here, because it could also be same for the guy. A girl would rather ignore the fact that there is a guy infront of her, than abuse or insult him. It makes no sense to insult someone. You would rather approach and be denied.