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I am just wondering if we really need to tell the truth to people, especially if they are close to us. Doing this means that our lives are an open book. How about the white lies? There are times that we do not want to hurt people's feelings. Thus, we need to tell white lies. What do you think?


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It is highly important that we tell the truth to our friends and family. No matter how hurtful it is because trust is the foundation of any relationship. Without it then no relationship will ever work. The truth will set us free from any guilt feelings. 
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It is indeed that being truthful is a part of life. Even the ugly truth can be blurted out to set the troubled soul free from being in guilt. There is no perfect life but we can work it out for being true to oneself.
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The term "The truth will set you free" is really powerful. Thank you for the reminder mate. :)

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@OnceAnArmy It is a good thing that we know how to deal with people who are good at concealing their real personas.
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Though telling white lies is unavoidable, telling the truth makes things less complicated. In the end, the truth sets us all free.
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You said it right. We do not need to conceal the truth because it will still be revealed in time. The sad part if a person found out this truth from other people, then it will result in a bad situation. It cannot be denied because it happens in real life.
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Yeah amen to that. White lies are still lies but the burden of it when it was revealed was sorrowful
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@OnceAnArmy I agree, but we need to. Some people need not know the real facts about someone or something.
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Absolutly important to always say the truth. In the begging it's will hurth you or some else, but the truth alwasy create a happines at the end.
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I join you with your opinion. Happiness is the key factor for people to live normally. It may not be having a perfect world, but at least, we are trying to achieve happiness despite knowing the real truth about life.
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I think it's perfectly acceptable to tell white lies and I would have hurt a lot of people if I hadn't in the past. When it comes to important issues I think it's important to tell the truth. People who lie too often are never believed when they do tell the truth and sometimes it can be a matter of life and death.
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There are some people who are a pathological liar and we cannot trust them. Nowadays, it is hard to find someone who can be trusted by us. I do not know what happened. Back in the old days, it seems making friends was easy and they can be loyal to us.
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Because it is only truth which binds you tightly with your friends, gives you respect at your workplace, tie with your life partner till the last breathe of ur life. 

Truth and lie are two sides of a coin one helps you to get more and more success in your life and other is always get you down in your life.
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I also believed that telling the truth will set you free. In this world, there are always two sides, either good or bad. Sometimes we need to be vigilant to determine it. It can be deceiving, but we can still find the real truth behind it.
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When we tell the truth our relationships grow stronger and richer. When we hold back the truth our relationships suffer including our relationship with ourselves. Telling the truth creates freedom and lightness. Holding back the truth creates excess baggage.
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We cannot afford to cheat ourselves for not saying the real truth. If a person does this, then he or she is not a good friend. It means he or she is only with a person for good times only.
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It is very important to always tell the truth because with lies somebody's life can be ruin. With lies no relationship will work . Telling truth make things less complicated 
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I do think that if we are not being truthful, lots of people will be hurt. Even a petting thing can be a full-blown issue and it will continue to grow if not being addressed. Unfortunately, many people are still being like this in the real world.
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Certainly yes! Regardless of the situation, it is best that they (family and close friends) know the truth from us rather than to any other people out there. Besides, trust is the foundation of a relationship.
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You said the right thing here. We do need to be truthful to our support system at all costs because they are the ones who will always be there for us.
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truth is a word that plays an important in one's life either to live happily or regretfully. telling truth is very difficult but after telling truth it will lead to sad but later it will create trust and belief. next, the important thing is the truth is like fear where no one can stop it or hold it so at some time the truth will come out and it will give more problems than saying the truth before. so telling truth is a better way to hold relationships. after telling truth one creates trust also by his words so that he or she said truth only to save their relationship with their closed ones.
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I do think that saying the ugly truth can make us lament, but we need to. It is our way to make our relationship with others stronger than before.
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Yes it depends sometimes lying helps to solve a situation for instance hiding the death of a loves one which can bring detrimental pain to a person we can choose to hide that fact. And also telling the truth always sets us free.
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You are referring to 'white lies.' I do agree with you about this concern. We do not want to hurt others by knowing the sad truth.
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Definitely it is a good trait to tell the truth. You tell truth because it is the believable things that happen. If you lie don't only cheat other people most of all you cheat yourself because you are not telling the real thing that happened. And specifically does anyone here believe in you if they know you're a liar? :) Peace

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Indeed. A pathological liar can never have the right words to say to others. Eventually, people will start to go away from them deliberately.
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Telling the truth is important , no matter if sometimes it will be painful, better than telling lies and after a while the white lie you are telling about will shock people.

When things is clear with no lies life become better and you will never lose the trust of people around you.
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When my late father died, we tried to have white lies to his mother. But then, my granny found out because my younger sister cannot do it.
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If we are telling the real truth, it means that we are not pretending and being true to ourselves at the same time. It is not good to be caught off guard if not doing this in the right way.
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To be honest with yourself it's often easier to show up for ourselves and become more of who really you are. Being truthful means that we can grow and mature, learning to form our mistakes. 
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it is really very very important to tell the truth whoever it is whether your friends family members or even strangers because telling truth makes you a trust worthy person.
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Lies no matter how it been told or placed is still a lie so we should try to always say the truth no matter what happens because the truth can never hide for long it will definitely show case for all to see.
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It is always important, to tell the truth because no matter how you lie or deny it later on the truth will still come out. Not telling the truth will bring you harm later and you will also commit sin lying to anyone. The effect will be on you that you feel like a burden within your inner self and conscience that you don't feel comfortable with. No matter how you hide things the reality will not change them.
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The truth set us free internally there is internal feeling of peace we get when we tell the truth, it might not sound pleasing to the ears of the hearer but it is right
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Telling the truth is very good character because you can be trusted by family members and your close friends and it makes things.
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Telling the truth will set you free , telling truth will release the tension of someone who is questioning you and this might help to find other possible ways to deal with the situation
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