Normally, after a breakup, there goes the pain. There are nights that you want to scream of pain and you keep on crying until your eyes are swollen. You even eat the food you love just to comfort yourself and watch movies or series that you missed. To be honest, there is no right thing to do when you want to move on from a break up. There are ways that could help but it is you that will know if you are already moved on or still moving on from the pain. If I can help you with this, I will say, first, you need to accept that you and your ex special someone already parted ways. Don't blame yourself or started to think that there is something wrong with your. Breakup up is a decision and from time to time decision changes based on different situations. Second, if you are in pain thinking of him/her, please do yourself a favor and start making yourself busy with something else to avoid thinking about him/her. Third, if you think that the decision of yours is wrong, you can open your line and reach out, but then if you are are just hurting but your decision is right, then just be strong and focus on yourself now. If you can avoid everything if you really want to avoid everything. It always starts with you.