Well, marriage is a life time commitment, it's enhanced by a mutual love between two people...you can also love someone but never marry the person, stability is what every man needs from a woman, there are certain things that needs to be in each one's heart and mind these are Mercy, understanding,caring, grateful and God fearing....if you find someone who has these, kindly take that person and make him yours, but there those who have no future dreams they want to get married to rich people, they want soft life, some of the challenges faced in marriages are part of the temptation to reveal who is in the marriage for selfish reasons, but also marriage brings about respect... Married people have a certain respect in the community, they are honoured and relied upon for various purposes, so to have a good chance of getting married to the right person one needs to be very keen on observing the virtues I just mentioned above....we get married when we feel certisfied with the characters of our loves