Heartbreaks can be the worst things that could happen to anyone. Whoever came up with the idea of calling it a heartbreak must have really had their hearts broken, and it caused them great pain. Anyway, anyone who has ever had a heartbreak knows just how much it pains. I have had one before and it really broke my heart for real. I thought my life has literally come to an end, i felt like i will never fall in love again, but guess what! just like it comes and goes, that is how you will again find real love. The one thing you need to do first, is to accept that you have lost your love, and they are not coming back, once you accept that fact then you can move on. Being in denial will never get you to move forward you will always be stagnant. Pain will be there, crying will be part of you for a while depending on how deep the relationship was, but that too will pass. just accept and the rest will follow. Keep busy with the things you love to do as well.